Three Child Support Mistakes Not to Make
If you are the non-custodial parent in a child custody case, it can be tough to sort through all your options for how to approach issues such as child support. You want to do the right thing for your kids, but you also want to make sure your rights and interests are protected. Although it can be tricky, it’s definitely possible to strike the right balance where both of those objectives are met. Working with an experienced divorce attorney can make all the difference, but in general, here are three things you probably want to avoid:
- Failing to Get Things in Writing: Making sure you have everything in writing is incredibly important. Whether it is making sure that you have records of child support payments you’ve made or anything else you and your ex agree on – get it in writing. Keep records of everything, including conversations and interactions with your ex. Consult your divorce attorney if you are unsure whether or not you need to get something in writing.
- Failing to Submit Modifications to the Court: For some matters, even getting things in writing between two spouses will not suffice. You may need to also file a modification with the court. If you give your ex money without the court’s permission, it may be counted as a gift and not a payment.
- Settling Too Quickly: Don’t settle on an agreement too quickly just to get it over with or demonstrate that you are willing to support your kids. Of course, making sure your children’s needs are met is important, but don’t take a sour deal just to appease them, or it could lead to years of suffering or bitterness.
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These mistakes are easy to make. Chances are, you have never been through a divorce before. As such, it can help to have an experienced and dedicated attorney on your side. The Oceanside child custody lawyers of Fischer & Van Thiel, LLP, are ready to work with you on your child support or child custody agreement, so call us today at 760-722-7646.