Disputes over child custody can be ugly, bitter, and extremely unpleasant. Parents sometimes forget that the best interests of the child should be at the forefront of their thinking, and instead use the issue of child custody as just a strategic ploy in the overall divorce scenario. That’s not how things should be, but if you find yourself contesting this kind of battle, it’s essential to make sure you have a good child support lawyer working with you.
Of the many child custody lawyers in the Oceanside area, Fischer & Van Thiel is one of the most often recommended. Their record of achieving the most favorable outcome for their clients is exemplary, and they definitely stand out as a good choice.
Once you have chosen an attorney to work with, you’ll have to make sure that you don’t do anything that may harm your chances of winning the dispute. Many people caught up in the emotional fallout of a recent or on-going divorce don’t always behave rationally or exercise good self control.
Your lawyer can advise you on the kinds of things you should avoid doing, the things you should be doing, and what things your former spouse may do that you should report (and to whom) that may have an impact on your child custody proceedings.
One of the biggest decisions you may face is whether or not you should be the one to move out of the family home, if anybody is to do so. In general, except when your safety or your children’s safety depends on it, moving out is not a good strategy. The parent who remains in the family home may have an advantage over the other parent, especially if they own the home rather than renting.
Some other factors that can have a bearing include prenuptial agreements, whose name appears on the title of major assets, which parent earns the most income, and if either parent has had any convictions recorded against them, serious medical conditions, or addictions. All of these things can influence the way a judge interprets the case. Lawyers also look into these things, and they’ll be able to advise you on how to eliminate the negatives and accentuate the positives. The important thing is to be completely honest with your lawyer and tell them everything that could possibly be of relevance to your case.
If the matter can’t be resolved without a judge needing to make a decision on it, the case will have to go to court. When you go to court for a child custody hearing, it is not the same as a criminal law trial, so you should not feel intimidated or overwhelmed by the fact that you’re appearing in court. Judges, especially in family court, want to make the right decisions. They want their rulings to be fair and just, and when it comes to the safety and security of children, it’s an especially important duty to ensure that the ruling is in the best interests of the child. Trust your lawyer to give the judge the right information to help them make the right decision.